Sunday, May 4, 2008

Sex

Let's just pull out the big guns here right from the start. Sex is the topic most people want to hear about. Is it because we're all a bunch of sick fucks? No. It's because we're human beings wired for human interaction at the maximum level. I'm going to give you my truth, let you try to wrap your brain around it for a while, and come back later with more on the subject. Here's the lowdown.

I have not had an orgasm produced, co-produced, or even fucking witnessed by a man in seven years.

Guess how long I've been with Bill. Got it? Ponder.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is some BULL-SHIT!!!!!

Athena said...

Anon, I love you.

Anonymous said...

Wow. Um... wow.

Ok, have you not had an orgasm because your husband is inept and/or doesn't care? Or is it more of a mental block on your part? I find that when I'm not emotionally involved in the moment, so to speak, I can't ever orgasm.

So, is he a selfish lover or are you so upset/resentful that you can't get your rocks off?

Athena said...

Erica: All of the above. I'll delve into all of that tomorrow...

Tess said...

I'm sorry man. I'm glad you've got this place. We're all listening.

SP said...

So far, I can relate completely. The Ex was a decent roommate and a great friend. Husband? Not so much.

Athena said...

Tessie: Hey, girl. Thanks.

sp: Looks like I'm in good company, eh?

Pickles and Dimes said...

Same here. The Ex was a great friend and roommate, but Not So Great at being a husband or lover. Sex was definitely a chore that I dreaded.

Athena said...

Pickles: Thanks for joining the convo. If you'd like to stick around, I'd love to hear any advice you may have...

email said...

I really don't know what to say - I just didn't want to be a lurker with something so personal, so I wanted to let you know I'm reading. I'll be very interested to hear what you add. Tough situation.

Athena said...

jmc: Lurkers are welcome. If I can form a collective consciousness here, maybe this will be easier to work through...